tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post8546534000841708249..comments2021-02-18T07:23:07.459-08:00Comments on The Baby Mamma Chronicles: Managing Dreams as a Married, Sometimes Single MotherTheBabyMammaChronicleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17210832629299621129noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-82718973892888250072011-03-11T16:22:57.796-08:002011-03-11T16:22:57.796-08:00That silver lining of yours? LOVE it! it's so ...That silver lining of yours? LOVE it! it's so true -- we AL get jealous at some point and wish things could be as easier as it may SEEM to be to another person. But believe me, it's probably not as easy for them. They are probably jealous of how gorgeous you are, or how positive your outlook on Motherhood and life is. We just never know...Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17286253462703793396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-79284620396378223532011-03-10T23:15:47.943-08:002011-03-10T23:15:47.943-08:00I agree with everyone else. This isn't negativ...I agree with everyone else. This isn't negative. You are so right. Everyone is jealous of something at sometime. And it's hard being a single mother, whether it's temporary or not. And your priorities are where they belong, mom and wife. And you are going to school so you are taking care of yourself too! Don't beat yourself up. And I know it seems like forever, but eventually your teensy munckin will be out of the house and you can pursue whatever the heck you want.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03431751293876429570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-17626399048106908492011-03-10T11:40:12.731-08:002011-03-10T11:40:12.731-08:00Beautiful. It's so hard to be a mom, yet so re...Beautiful. It's so hard to be a mom, yet so rewarding as well. I have a single friend who is always traveling the world and doing fabulous and adventurous thing. And my little green eyed monster comes out once in a while. Until I think about what she has to go home to, then I think SHE is the one who should be jealous! Have a great weekend!Staceyhttp://www.staceysmotheringmoments.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-80339587620127075702011-03-10T06:29:22.875-08:002011-03-10T06:29:22.875-08:00Sounds like you are doing an amazing job balancing...Sounds like you are doing an amazing job balancing so many things!<br /><br />Honestly, when my husband was traveling for work, I was not very together. The nights are rough when it's just you and it has been all.day.long.<br /><br />I admire you. You are an amazing mother who also knows that following your dreams is important.<br /><br />Best wishes to you! XOmdforkidshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14468887103710530554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-8931141769052247162011-03-10T00:05:26.181-08:002011-03-10T00:05:26.181-08:00I think we all have some sort of jealousy every si...I think we all have some sort of jealousy every single day. all that matters is how we deal with it. But let me tell you - When my kids were all little babies I couldnt wait until they were old enough to where I wouldnt feel so guilty leaving them with a sitter. And now we are at that point. Finally. And the Hubs and I have more dates, and can even go out of town occasionally.... But now, Im sad that my babies are all getting so old! lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-50329343497409705372011-03-09T21:43:10.918-08:002011-03-09T21:43:10.918-08:00Oh boy, oh boy do I hear you. This is negative......Oh boy, oh boy do I hear you. This is negative...it's REAL. This is what REAL motherhood is about. Open and honest and not afraid to say that it isn't always easy. I am jealous a lot. I won't lie. Of my friends getting ready to take of to the beach this week for vacation; of others who have family around to take care of their child so they can go to the mall for an hour alone. It's tough. Especially when it comes to pursuing your dreams and your ambitions in life. I hope you get it figured out. I know it's hard. Hugs!! :)Courtney K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02573829022325334453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-13103179122555924612011-03-09T19:45:29.650-08:002011-03-09T19:45:29.650-08:00I can completely understand. Not that my husband i...I can completely understand. Not that my husband is away or anything. But for me, it's that we are domestic missionaries. We ARE ACTUAL missionaries, we have to raise our own support and everything but we work in the States. I get jealous because it's hard living here but not affording everything our friends can afford. It's not like we are poor or anything but we can't buy and do the things most of our friends can. And although I am so happy we can be missionaries and I wouldn't trade it for anything I find myself jealous of some of my mom friends at times. You are right the grass is always greener.<br /><br />I think you are doing a wonderful job as a mom and student! You are parenting a beautiful girl, going to school AND taking care of everything by yourself! You are an inspiration!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-88847364815426160772011-03-09T13:36:54.231-08:002011-03-09T13:36:54.231-08:00Such honesty. There is always something to be jeal...Such honesty. There is always something to be jealous over.Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06811697675090627618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-45869517869797302022011-03-09T05:21:17.714-08:002011-03-09T05:21:17.714-08:00Girl- I struggle with similar feelings all the tim...Girl- I struggle with similar feelings all the time. I try so hard not to get jealous of my friends here in houston and my SIL and brother back home because they have my parents and my friends have their parents around 24-7 so that they can go and do things. It is just patrick and I here in Houston and although our friends are great, they don't give you the flexibility and time that your parents would if they were near. So i know how you feel but on a different level. It just makes us stronger and bond closer to those we do have and the things we have! You will make it girl. You are doing great and your family, hubs and little girl are going to be so proud of you when you are finished with school! So will I!Kitchen Belleicioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13025789951330518415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-38597683030359925142011-03-08T22:16:06.412-08:002011-03-08T22:16:06.412-08:00At the risk of sounding like the voice of reason (...At the risk of sounding like the voice of reason (which clearly I am not), get through your nursing degree, worry about the NP after. I'm not sure how it works where you are, but where i am, I have to work for at least 2 years as an RN before I can apply for the program. Who knows where you'll be then. You may have had the chance to relocate somewhere where the NP program is offered....wow, I can't believe I sat here and gave you unsolicited advice. Forgive me if I've overstepped.<br />And no, you certainly were not negative in your post. Just human. We like human! xoxoxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09894333322881236627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-2371001615242517622011-03-08T22:04:33.268-08:002011-03-08T22:04:33.268-08:00Great post, Khara! I think we all have that "...Great post, Khara! I think we all have that "the grass is greener" feeling sometimes. Your friend probably feels the same way about you! I have no doubt you'll be a Nurse Practitioner AND be a great mom to Kaia and good wife. I think we can have it all as long as we face our own realities.Annehttp://sugarbowlmix.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-403370381846930712011-03-08T18:40:59.559-08:002011-03-08T18:40:59.559-08:00Khara, I think that being able to acknowledge what...Khara, I think that being able to acknowledge what you have and at what cost you have it, is such an important thing to be able to do.<br /><br />More importantly, you're able to acknowledge and embrace your blessings. THAT is a gift.Kathttp://www.tenaciouslyyours.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-20469029687688771872011-03-08T09:09:25.842-08:002011-03-08T09:09:25.842-08:00Your feelings are valid and I applaud you for look...Your feelings are valid and I applaud you for looking at the bright side. Just remember that now is not forever and you will find your season to pursue your dreams when the timing is right!<br />Wishing you a great day!Paula @ Simply Sandwichhttp://www.simplysandwich.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-34814183494528107472011-03-08T06:59:27.162-08:002011-03-08T06:59:27.162-08:00Very true, isn't it? It is never easy all the ...Very true, isn't it? It is never easy all the time, no matter the love we hold for our babes. I do the same thing, and other times, you could drag me from them. You rock!Sara @ Domestically Challengedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10245599062507705190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-4049333371416520112011-03-07T14:46:32.706-08:002011-03-07T14:46:32.706-08:00I feel this way all the time but I am never really...I feel this way all the time but I am never really brave enough to post it on my blog. I am jealous that other people find motherhood so much easier than me. I am jealous that they can shift and move for a job and I can't. I am disappointed that I can't take a job that I want because I have to pick up and drop my daughter. I feel guilty that I feel the way I do.<br /><br />You are not alone my friend! But it sounds like you are doing a fabulous job juggling so much more than most people can handle and I am so inspired to do the same.Ameenahttp://fancythatfancythis.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-84044203406691107762011-03-07T11:00:18.627-08:002011-03-07T11:00:18.627-08:00you are always so refreshing to read. i can admit ...you are always so refreshing to read. i can admit defeat, looking stupid, feeling inadequate, so many things, but it is so hard for me to admit to being jealous sometimes. but, you are right! i am jealous of things too! <br /><br />i am jealous that other woman seem to be effortlessly better moms than me, i am jealous of women who look like they came out of a beauty salon every morning.<br /><br />despite these feelings, i am truly grateful for what i have. <br /><br />i think you are doing beautifully. so, so proud of you.Elizabeth-FlourishinProgresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13866057740157426001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-26804035773566204802011-03-07T07:18:32.350-08:002011-03-07T07:18:32.350-08:00I can totally relate to this feeling. I assume al...I can totally relate to this feeling. I assume all moms can.<br /><br />You have a unique situation though because as you said, you are like a single mom right now.<br /><br />There are those moments though when I'm with my daughter and she is being so cute, or sweet, or smart or loveable or all the above...that I notice I have the hugest smile on my face, or that happy tears are welling up in my eyes that I realize there is no place I'd rather be and no life I'd rather have.<br /><br />You're right, the grass is always greener but I like my soggy brown grass better! ;)Kelly @ City Momhttp://citymom.canoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-29960033396965413132011-03-07T07:01:53.107-08:002011-03-07T07:01:53.107-08:00Thinking of you! :) You are doing a GREAT job hand...Thinking of you! :) You are doing a GREAT job handling everything. I don't think I could do it.Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10996270713715595187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-89164662926657546842011-03-07T06:44:35.354-08:002011-03-07T06:44:35.354-08:00I'm always a single mother, and there is proba...I'm always a single mother, and there is probably not one day that goes by that I am not jealous. Jealous that people have help with the house and bills. Jealous of others freedoms. Jealous that when I am not feeling good I don't have someone to help me while I rest.<br />And then I realize how much stronget of a person I am becoming because I have to do all these things...and I have to do them on my own. And it's because of Justine that I do all these things, and she is worth it.Kristihttp://www.eatdrinkloveandexercise.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1629110945654276249.post-34060851380961145402011-03-07T06:23:18.193-08:002011-03-07T06:23:18.193-08:00I don't see this a negative post Khara. :) I ...I don't see this a negative post Khara. :) I really believe there are always times in our lives when everybody seems to have it just that much easier. It can be so easy to glamorize someone else's life (not saying you do, but I know I'm guilty of this from time to time). So easy to compare. But your last paragraph just sums it up so beautifully. The positive spirit that shines through those words shows you do have the grace to handle these things. You are really doing such an amazing job and your plate is full to the brim! It's no wonder a bit of relaxation time or even just more study time sounds appealing!:)<br /><br />I hope your week is full of good things!Colleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13564805397010089954noreply@blogger.com